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First, let me just say a big thank you to everyone who reached out with positive feedback and comments for the last post I put up ‘Being a Good Dom’. I am thrilled that people found it interesting or helpful 😊

I have gotten several requests for most posts on the subject – so I hereby bestoweth upon thee, part 2 of Being a Good Dom!

As I mentioned in the last blog, the Dom is there to serve the needs and fantasies of the sub. With that in mind, it is important to understand your sub. For this next blog, I thought it might be helpful to provide a bit more insight into the sub lifestyle so that any prospective Doms out there can get a better understanding of the reasons someone might find this kind of play attractive, some context for the role the Dom is trying to fill in this arrangement while also trying to dispel some of the most common misunderstandings of the sub mindset.

*Standard disclaimer: I have written this from a male Dom perspective assuming a female sub. That is just my experience with D/s, so no offense intended for female Dommes, male subs, or trans anybody 😉 I love you all*

The sub is a discerning creature

One of the biggest misconceptions about being a sub is that they are just looking to be dominated. That anyone who can display sufficiently intimidating, abusive, or just simply crude behavior will fit the role. If you haven’t read my last blog, I recommend you do as I don’t want to transcribe the whole thing again here, but trust was a pretty major theme.

I got a message out of the blue the other day, and the only thing it said was “Hey. Female?” Now, I would be drawing a long bow to assume that this person was a prospective Dom looking for a sub, but it does serve as a good example of the kind of low effort messages and introductions that happen all the time. If you are looking for a sub, and this is the kind of message you are sending people… you never had a chance. Trust me. 

Unfortunately, there are a lot more subs out there looking for Doms than there are good Doms to fill those roles, however, the standard rules of supply and demand do not apply here. They are not vying for your attention. You are applying for theirs. This is because they are the ones submitting themselves to the control of another and they are the ones who are most vulnerable in this relationship. They simply don’t have the luxury of being careless when choosing a Dom. For this reason, you need to be very honest with both the other person as well as yourself. If there is no genuine connection, or you don’t think you can provide the kind of experience they are looking for, you need to be upfront about that otherwise you will just wind up with a disappointed sub, hurt feelings, and a whole lot of wasted time.

For example, I am very experienced with Forced, Slave, and Big/little types of D/s play (more on types below), and I am very confident in my abilities in this respect. However, my experience has been almost exclusively in-person. I am a reasonably large man – about 6’1 and 120kg (about 265lbs) of mostly muscle – and a large part of my Dom style is my ability to physically overawe my subs. With that in mind, I have had substantially less experience with online-only D/s given I can no longer rely on my physical presence to enforce my commands. For this reason, I would need to be very clear with anyone who wanted to sub for me but only online, that I would still be learning. I am more than willing to put the time into improving my online skill set, but the sub deserves to know this upfront to ensure that our expectations are consistent.   

It is also important to know that subs will talk! I won’t profess to know everything about the D/s community specifically in relation to pet-love, but every other D/s community I have been involved with in the past is precisely that… a community. Your sub will likely have friends on AoZ and is probably also an active member of other sites and fetish communities. If you get a reputation as a bad Dom or a time-waster, that reputation will spread. Fast. 

It is really hard to find genuine people online, so anything you can do to stand out will make a difference. Be safe and keep your profile private and accessible to friends only if you have to, but say hi to people in the forums, and I would highly recommend getting verified if you are able to.

Subs, this part goes for you as well! Being a Dom for someone is a significant investment of time, trust, and energy. Get verified, otherwise, you may find it difficult to find a Dom who is willing to invest that time sight-unseen. If you are unable to get verified for one reason or another (e.g. male or trans subs who cannot get verified female tags) then you better make sure that your profile is fucking spot-on 😉      

The Fantasy

A sub doesn’t just want to be dominated. They are looking for someone specific. Someone who can craft an environment, a setting, and an overall tone to fulfill her fantasies. More-so, someone who they can trust to take care of them and have their safety and interests in front of mind throughout. Anyone can call someone “bitch” or write paragraphs about how they “want to fist your worthless ass while my dog violates your pathetic doggy cum-hole.” This does not require any kind of intelligence, talent, or effort. This could be something a Dom would say to a sub, and may certainly be part of the experience (depending heavily on what kind of sub and what kind of play) but it is only part of the experience. Don’t confuse ‘saying-all-the-things’ with satisfying the craving or desire your sub is looking to fill and calling yourself a Dom in the process. That’s like calling yourself a Chef because you can describe the food.

Continuing with the Chef analogy, you wouldn’t serve steak to a vegan. You need to understand your sub’s desires and make sure you are tailoring the experience to them. This is yet another reason why you need to form a relationship with your (potential) sub before you actually commence any D/s playtime in order to find out what they want, what their kinks are, and what the role is that you are trying to fill. This is another huge pitfall with the above example of immediately aggressive messages. You are talking about ass-fisting with someone who may find that horrifying and is looking for a more subtle Dom experience. If you don’t take these steps to engage and form a genuine connection with the other person, sure they may have a quick chat with you just to see if you are going to take the story someplace interesting, but you have already been ruled out for anything more serious.

I have included a few common D/s relationship types below for those who are curious about what kind of Dom/sub you may be, but please understand that this list is only an example and not at all exhaustive. There are limitless variations of arrangements. Also, in the spirit of the site, I have tried to include a pet-sex scenario for each😉

Service

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This usually involves a submissive performing ‘services’ for their Dom. This is often, but not always, sexual. The sub may be tasked with attending to the physical needs of their Dom, whether it be massage, bathing, oral/penetrative sex, but will often also include more mundane service tasks like laundry, cooking, cleaning or serving of drinks and food. A common twist on this scenario that can be fun for Doms and subs alike, is the sexual service often taking a ‘free-use’ or dispassionate tone where the sub needs to attempt to maintain a facade during sex, treating it as just another chore to be done professionally and efficiently. 

In this type of arrangement, the Dom is often required to be very professional, measured, and assured. The nature of this type of arrangement is usually such that ‘disobedience’ is not a common occurrence, or at least where the disobedience and subsequent consequences are often minor. This is often part of the fun for this scenario, as sex can be reduced to the kind of dispassionate, impersonal nature of mundane chores. As the Dom, if your sub fails to perform sufficiently during oral sex, you are no more annoyed than you would be if your house-cleaner did a poor job of vacuuming the floor. Given this, you need to be able to sell disappointment. It can be a word or a look, but you need your sub to know that you are not pleased but without being able to resort to name-calling or physical threats.       

For a pet-sex flavor, the Dom could incorporate the physical relief of his dog into the daily chores of the submissive with specific stipulations as to how this is to be accomplished. For example, she is to allow the dog to mount her any time he wishes, and that this is an acceptable reason for delaying her other duties. She is, under no circumstances, allowed to take any measures that would prevent the animal from knotting with her. Oral relief for the Dog is only a suitable substitute for penetrative sex if her Dom is currently in use of her vagina/ass. 

Little/Brat

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This type of submissive actually varies pretty wildly. Here you will find littles, middles, brats, babygirls, those who are into ageplay and those who aren’t, etc. What is generally consistent, is the Dom taking on the role of a provider, caregiver, or father figure and the submissive taking on a pretty generally passive role and being taken care of. Incest and age-players are frequently attracted to this kind of arrangement for obvious reasons, however, it is by no means a prerequisite. It does usually involve the submissive adopting behaviors of a much younger person. For example, brats tend to cultivate a petulant attitude with tantrums, frequent disobedience, and cheekiness often in order to goad a response from their Dominant or even to provoke punishment.  

This is a really popular arrangement for women who are quite dominant in their daily lives or used to taking care of everyone around them, and for once just want to hand over the reins and to know that if they do as they are told, they will be taken care of. It can also be a great outlet for people who need to keep their behavior in check during the day, but find it very cathartic to act out in a private setting. 

This is actually a very hard scenario to Dom for properly. Similar to the ‘Service’ type arrangement, in this instance, the Dom – or Big –  is usually required to project an air of complete confidence, assurance, and control without being aggressive or abusive. Unlike the ‘Service’ scenario, however, the Dom needs to remain engaged and not dispassionate. This kind of arrangement also requires more emotional availability from the Dom than almost any other type of D/s scenario. You need to be the loving caregiver, who can deliver even-handed punishment for a misbehaving little. And trust me, if you are engaged in long-term play with a misbehaving brat, making sure that punishment is even-handed can be exceptionally difficult. 

Now, there is a subset of this arrangement that actually involves abuse play of the little in which case the Dom (and punishments) can get a little more intense, but unless you are a very experienced Dom I would steer clear of that until you are very confident you can do it properly. 

A pet play scenario for this one is a little challenging given how much it would change for each type of little, but for now, let’s assume we are dealing with a brat. In this scenario, you could play along that you have stumbled upon your little masturbating your dog. You are furious with her, and can’t believe that she would do something like that, but when you confront her about it she gives you attitude, tells you that you just don’t understand, asserting that she has no intention of stopping and just keeps asking “what are you going to do about it?”. Remember when your father caught you smoking and then made you finish the whole pack? To discipline her for doing something so obscene in your household, and for the way she spoke back to you, you are now going make her go all the way with the Dog. If she wants to play with his cock, she damn well better do it properly. We don’t do things halfway in this house…

For a gentler version of the above scenario, you could instead play it as curiosity on her part and she needs her Big to teach her how to do it properly. You aren’t happy about it, but you love your little and would do anything for her, so you agree to coach her just to make sure that if she is going to do this, she will at least do it safely. 

Forced

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This is the D/s type that you will see portrayed the most in media, as well as the one most people are familiar with. It is also the one that I most commonly see people fuck up completely. As you might infer from the title, this scenario usually involves some aspect of the submissive being forced into sexual compliance, and this is where we see some of the more well-known aspects of BDSM and D/s come to the fore. Specifically things like humiliation, degradation, bondage, breath-play, impact-play, Consensual-Non-Consent, etc. This is also where we see a whole lot of D/s relationships and play that aren’t any of these things. A lot of women get into submissive play because they want to be ‘taken’. Sometimes it might be because they want to feel used, without regard for their own pleasure or needs. That could be something primal, they just want their man to be a man and do what a man does, or maybe they just want their partner to work for it. Other times it could be a little darker; they want to be restrained or overpowered. To be helpless and know that they couldn’t stop their Dom, even if they wanted to. If we are talking CNC, then they may even *act*  like they don’t want it. 

The thing I see people doing wrong here more often than not is either going too hard, too early, or being too aggressive when that isn’t always the best lever to pull. Again, you need to understand what your sub is looking for. If she wants to be called a “disgraceful, fuck-hole” then, fantastic, go for your life, but maybe she doesn’t want to be demeaned, just restrained. For a lot of subs, the forced scenario is more about the Dom proving that they are stronger, more willful, and – yes – dominant and therefore worthy of submission. Any teenager with a thesaurus can come up with creative ways to call someone names. 

The tricky thing about being a Dom in a forced arrangement is that any aggression, rage or sadism you might direct toward your sub has to always be controlled. Don’t try to feign it if it isn’t there – your sub can tell – as it will just come across as flaccid and petulant, but at the same time, you can’t get carried away as that is when things get out of control, boundaries get broken and people get hurt. Think of it like boxing; you can get mad and hit harder, but don’t be biting any ears off. 

While I would certainly recommend any Dom and sub agree on a written contract to establish the rules and boundaries of play, I would go so far as to say that it is pretty much mandatory in a D/s arrangement practicing forced play and CNC.

As you might expect pet-sex fits almost seamlessly into a forced arrangement given how easily a lot of the same key roles can be filled by an animal. For instance, a dog really is the ultimate partner when it comes to just being ‘taken’ and the primal fucking from a male just doing what every instinct in his body is screaming at him to do. Or, you could add restraints to the mix before introducing your pet to the fun so she has no choice but to let him have his way with her, having no way to stop him. For those who are into degradation and humiliation, the taboo nature of the act is an obvious winner. To add an element of CNC to the mix, you could act out a scenario in which your sub has been caught burglarizing your house. Rather than calling the police, you take justice into your own hands. You overpower her, fuck her relentlessly, and when you are done you tie her over your armchair with a spreader bar between her knees. That is when you bring your dog into the room and you watch her eyes go wide as she realizes what comes next…

***BEFORE ENGAGING IN FORCED/CNC PLAY MAKE SURE YOU HAVE EXPLICIT, EXPRESSED CONSENT***

Obviously, there are a whole lot of other D/s types and categories than what I have described above – slave, furry, masochist, SAM, devoted, spiritual… and on the list goes – but at least that should highlight how different they can be from each other, and the importance of establishing early on, just what kind of play you are getting into.

Honestly, I am considering a separate blog for each category because I have barely touched on the ones above, and really haven’t done them justice.

Subspace

The last thing I wanted to cover in this blog, is subspace. This is important to understand because if your sub is lucky enough to experience subspace, but you as a Dom are not prepared for it, things can get out of hand very quickly.

Subspace is very difficult to explain to anyone who hasn’t experienced it, so for that reason I highly recommend that anyone who is serious about being a Dom spend some time as a sub first not only to get some much-needed context but also to see if you are able to experience subspace for yourself. With that said, I will do my best to explain it briefly here. Any of you subs out there who have been there, please feel free to leave a better description in the comments if you feel like I butcher this explanation. Here goes…

Subspace is both a physical sensation and a psychological state. A person can enter subspace through prolonged physical pain or intense sensation as well as sustained psychological stress or arousal. During intense play, the neurological chemicals that govern things like our fight-or-flight response, positive feedback response, and other natural processes, are released in such quantity that they can induce an almost euphoric state in a person. For many, this can feel like being drunk or high. While in this state, many subs experience physical changes like an increased pain tolerance, a higher sensitivity to touch and sensation, harder and more frequent orgasms, while at the same time as psychological sensations such as an intense closeness with their Dom and a greater connection with everything around them.

Doms can also experience something similar, however, in my experience, it is a more muted effect. Instead, I personally tend to feel intense concentration and focus, as though everything else in the world has ceased to exist beyond my sub and myself.

Subspace is not something that should be expected, or even sought, every time you engage in D/s or BDSM play. It is notoriously difficult to achieve and is extremely draining afterward for both sub and Dom. The reason you need to be aware of, and prepared for your sub going into subspace as a Dom is because of the boundaries that will be harder than ever to maintain.

Due to the state of mind induced by subspace, and the potent cocktail of neurological chemicals contributing to that state, it is not uncommon for subs to experience intense/exaggerated emotions including extreme arousal, dizziness or lightheadedness, or even incoherence. It is important to realize that someone experiencing subspace is not in their usual frame of mind and is often incapable of rational decision-making. If you have agreed on boundaries before playtime – and you very fucking should have ಠ_ಠ – then you need to adhere to those boundaries, no matter how amenable your sub may seem to be at the time. If you are engaging in any kind of pain play, your sub may no longer be capable of telling you when to stop, likewise, if you have been toying with the idea of petsex, subspace is not the time to introduce the dog. I know from personal experience, the one time I was able to achieve subspace, I was completely incapable of recognizing my own physical limits and ended up with several permanent scars as a result.

Keep this in mind; subspace is temporary, the things you did while in subspace are not. Friends don’t let friends fuck dogs while drunk – and these are very similar circumstances.

Don’t get me wrong, subspace is absolutely incredible and I feel like everyone owes it to themselves to experience it at least once in their life, but there is a huge amount of responsibility on the Dom throughout as the party in control of everyone’s enjoyment and safety. 

Finally, if your sub is lucky enough to experience subspace, please make sure that you are practicing aftercare. I will leave a more detailed discussion of aftercare for a future planned blog getting more into the Dom side of things, but for right now just understand that – similar to most other highs – a person doesn’t just return to normal when they come out of subspace. There is often a low, or ‘sub-drop’, to contend with as all of those neurological chemicals normalize. Aftercare, in its simplest form, is just a period of time after play has completed where we check back in with our subs to make sure that they are 100% okay with everything that happened, tend to any wounds – physical or otherwise – and just generally be really present and available. Talking and cuddling are obviously great tools, but you can also include touching and foreplay type elements into aftercare as well, only gradually ramping down in intensity instead of up as you slowly bring your sub back to solid ground. Your responsibility to care for your sub is not limited to sex. 

Well, that ended up being a much longer blog than I originally set out to write. I might have to do a bit more planning for future iterations instead of just vomiting thoughts at my keyboard.

Anyway, folks, I hope to write a few more of these. In the meantime, stay kinky 😉

Love you all,

DomCanine.

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8 Comments
  1. FeralBlackCat21 3 weeks ago

    Nice blog. Very thorough and informing for those that don’t have experience with the D/s community.

    Also, most people tend to think that power exchange relationships are always between a Dominant and submissive. It would be nice to hear more about how a dynamic between a Dom and another Dom/Domme can work ;P

  2. RookPup 3 weeks ago

    ah this is wonderfully written !!

  3. DreamClean 1 month ago

    Once again, you hit many nails precisely on the nailhead. It’s obvious you have a strong grasp of your subject matter and an ease of expression. With an economy of words you open wide the doors of understanding. Well done, and Thank You for sharing your gifts.

  4. frenchzlover 1 month ago

    “practicing aftercare”
    I absolutely agree with that 🙂

  5. Plumppet 2 months ago

    Be very careful of lumping people into groups. In every paragraph youve written i would agree that what you pose is “sometimes true” which means that it is always dangerous to assume its true. The word pet, for example, can mean very different things. Its the relationship that creates the frame.

    Also safewords are not for all people. If you’re scening and want to feign distress for fun theyre necessary but there are many of us who to say ouch, stop, i need, etc. People like me live in a constant power exchange state underlying everything. Ive lived that way most of my adult life and have met many others who do as well. They are just less likely to be seen in the clubs or online because they have what they need already , not unlike a k9 couple who already has a good social network in person.

    My point is just that lots of people are different and their motivations are vast and varied. 10 years as a kink and poly psychotherapist taught me that. The hardest clients are always the ones most like me because it is harder to not immediately assume they have the samw motivations and needs that i do.

  6. K9secret 2 months ago

    Good article, well thought out, concise and to the point, I like the way you titled every thing and it just goes to show how often people think they are a dom but are just really a control freak. Maith thu.. 🙂

  7. BellaBitch 2 months ago

    Fantastic blog! 👏👏👏 This should be included on an AOZ required reading list! Thank you for clarifying the differences between sub types…. I get lumped into the wrong category often and it’s a huge turnoff. Know your stuff Doms 😈 or this Brat will shut you down fast 😉 Keep up the awesome blogging DomCanine.
    Waiting for more,
    Xxx BellaBitch 🦄💋

  8. Ander 2 months ago

    Yes Brasil,

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